my parents recently divorced. i'm 14, and im old enough to understand their divorce was not about me or my sister. however, he has been abusive both physically and emotionally to me and my mother for as long as i can remember... i even called the cops on him once. he lives a few minutes away now in an apartment, but i havent gone to visit him at all since the divorce 2 weeks ago. i hope i can find it in my heart to forgive him like my sister has, but its so hard.
michaela from texas
June 15, 2014
having the ability to know you love others
flor from alto
January 10, 2014
Forgiveness is a trait everyone needs because its what holds the country's of the world together. People should always learn to forgive and forget, because forgiveness allows you to move on to better things to greater dreams and stronger relationships.
Lila from Curtis MI usa
December 10, 2013
Your life experience IS what it IS and ISN'T what it ISN'T - so don't make your life experience what it ISN'T...ie...don't turn your life experience into marvelous dramas or into horror stories. EMBRACE life - LOVE it - LIVE it! (forgive and forget what you can't) You'll be surprised what a difference it makes!
Les Coughran from Camas WA
March 31, 2013
Forgiveness is hard, but you have to take the simplest step first, that is to be willing to have a relationship.do you want to be right or do you want to have a relationship?
larry from Nairobi,Kenya
September 18, 2012
When we are able to accept that we don't have to be perfect, we can move towards more consistently forgiving ourselves. Doing so allows us to be more vulnerable and our defenses naturally come down. When defenses come down, we are able to relate more authentically with our fellow human beings. Out of this type of relating comes joy, love and peace.
Ben G from Brisbane, CA
July 24, 2012
Forgiveness releases us to be healthy.
Bruce Willingham from Warner Robins, Ga
July 10, 2012
Being forgiven is love. Forgiving oneself is empowering, and may be the first step toward learning to love by healing the actions of the head and revealing the truth of the heart.
Jon from Indiana
June 20, 2012
Forgiveness is a cleansing of the heart
Darlene from California
April 24, 2012
"Forgiveness means mustering up the courage to free yourself from the monsters that are holding you back--anger and resentment."
Antonio Martins from SA, TX
March 26, 2012
ya, its in the act of forgiving where we learn important lessons in life. it's actually another starting point of a stronger relationship.
broz joseph tito from philippines
February 9, 2012
Como diria a música de Ludmila Ferber: "É preciso pedir e dar perdão, é preciso perder pra ganhar". How would the music of Ludmila Ferber: "You have to ask and give forgiveness, you must lose to win."
Anderson de Sousa Almeida from Colatina - ES, Brasil
December 8, 2011
Forgiveness is something that you can't pretend to do, you can say you forgive a person but you must mean it with everything inside of you.
Naria from Barbados
October 21, 2011
My boyfriend forgave me for cheating on him. But I haven't yet forgiven myself.
Wendee from LA
July 21, 2011
Forgiveness sets you free! It allows for hope to return to you and the person forgiven to not enslave you.
Lauri Miller Molnar from Akron/Canton Ohio
July 5, 2011
Forgiveness brings more peace to your soul than to the person you forgave. Anger and resentment hold you back, forgiveness moves you forward.
Donna from FL
June 4, 2011
Forgiveness is one's own release from anger and fear.
Gloria W from Fresno, CA
May 18, 2011
Forgiveness cannot be earned or achieved by the wrongdoer--it can only be granted or given by the one done wrong.
Mark Anthony DiBello from The City of Angels
April 30, 2011
Forgiveness makes the heart softer, it heals and gives us freedom from hurt. Live life joyfully.
Carolejane B from West Hartford, CT
March 20, 2011
I agree that forgiveness is hard to do. However, holding on to anger or pain for a lifetime is more difficult.
Natalie G from Garden Grove. CA
February 26, 2011
It's important to forgive someone not only for his own comfort, but for yours, too. Why be angry if you have the choice to forgive instead? To forgive and forget is always the best thing to do.
Ethar Hamid from Sterling, Virginia
February 16, 2011
- Forgiving is the hardest thing to do.
Jayy Giomani from Indianapolis
January 31, 2011
hope that if you wronged someone and you are truley sorry that they have it in them to forgive
frank from san diego
January 27, 2011
Forgiveness is the hardest thing in the world for me to do, but it is the most satisfying when I finally do achieve it!
Judy S from Gold Canyon, Az.
December 31, 2010
I showed forgiveness when I forgave the bully's who beat me up and made my life miserable. When they asked for my forgiveness I did forgave them.
Rachel from Fulton, New York
December 29, 2010
Pope John Paul.... The epitome of forgiveness.... Pass It Ot!
Jill from New Jersey
December 23, 2010
LOVE WILL SAVE THE WORLD. MAX BEMIS
ROSENDA PEREZ from DE QUEEN
December 19, 2010
Forgive, don't forget, learn, take responsibility, move on, live, love, and enjoy today.
Allyson C from Lyme, CT
December 1, 2010
forgiving means everything
Jammie k from orlando
October 8, 2010
There is healing in forgiveness.
Shanica W. from Atlanta,GA
July 6, 2010
Forgiveness isn't forgetting what was done, but remembering all the pain inflicted and letting the person live on, unmarked with your resent.
Meghan H. from Westwood,CA
March 26, 2010
You are never able to be happy all the time. The difference is in how you handle it...
Kat H from Boise, Id
November 7, 2009
Everyone has to have forgiveness or they won't be happy all the time! :)
Andrea P. from McMinnville, OR
November 3, 2009